Re: Re: Re: Four O'Clocks, wedding..

Jesse: Quite often with these folks, there is no such thing as being
nice to them...Robert can always tell her that if she shows up at his
son's wedding, she will be firmly and not so politely escorted off the
premises by the local police. Problem is, he must be willing to follow
through. Poor kids...no one should have to put up with that kind of crap
on the day of their weddings. Melody, IA (Z 5/4)


"The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious."    
--Albert Einstein

 --- On Wed 07/14, Jesse Bell < silverhawk@flash.net > wrote:
From: Jesse Bell [mailto: silverhawk@flash.net]
To: gardenchat@hort.net
Date: Wed, 14 Jul 2004 06:43:35 -0700 (PDT)
Subject: Re: Re: [CHAT] Re: Four O'Clocks, wedding..

Well, I wrote "the letter" but have not mailed it. It's one of
those<br>things you write in anger then put it aside and think about it.
Then I<br>picked it up and softened the words because I was pretty
&quot;in-your-face&quot;<br>about it. I'm sitting on it again. She is
one of those who doesn't<br>understand &quot;polite but firm&quot;. Even
when you are blunt with her....and<br>she knows she is WRONG....she'll
argue with you. When my husband told<br>her that he did not want to see
her at any more family gatherings except<br>for Natalie (her daughter)
she told him that we needed to seek some<br>counseling. She &quot;raised
those kids for ten years and is more of a mother<br>to them than their
real mother&quot;. Right. She hit them and was mentally<br>abusive as
well. She hated Nic and Nathan and they hated her. Go
figure.<br><br><br><br>Melody &lt;mhobertm@excite.com&gt;
wrote:<br>Can't you politely but firmly un-invite her? And if polite
doesn't work,<br>then tell her in language she will understand. You
don't have to have<br>another one of your children's weddings spoiled by
this maniac...truly<br>you don't!<br><br><br><br>Melody, IA (Z
5/4)<br><br>&quot;The most beautiful thing we can experience is the
mysterious.&quot; <br>--Albert Einstein<br><br>--- On Mon 07/12, Jesse
Bell &lt; silverhawk@flash.net &gt; wrote:<br>From: Jesse Bell [mailto:
silverhawk@flash.net]<br>To: gardenchat@hort.net<br>Date: Mon, 12 Jul
2004 07:07:02 -0700 (PDT)<br>Subject: Re: Re: [CHAT] Re: Four O'Clocks,
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