Re: OT - asthma relapse/she's gone

Sorry Pam, but I don't agree.

I know in the back of your mind you are thinking you couldn't just
replace Sugar and the world would be fine. That will never happen. But a
new kitty that needs your home will help you grieve. It will not replace
Sugar or make you forget her, but it will help you. Trust me.


Donna

----- Original Message ----
From: Pam Evans <gardenqueen@gmail.com>
To: gardenchat@hort.net
Sent: Wednesday, July 4, 2007 9:38:06 PM
Subject: Re: [CHAT] OT - asthma relapse/she's gone


Well it will be a little while before I am ready.  It would be no kindness
to bring a baby into an empty house full of pain and grief right now.  When
it becomes a home again full of joy and love, then it will be the
appropriate time.  But I appreciate the sentiments expressed and all the
positive support.

On 7/4/07, Zemuly Sanders <zemuly@comcast.net> wrote:
>
> Beautiful sentiments, Kitty.  I really kept your philosophy in mind this
> spring when I lost so many to the coyotes.  No others have showed up so
> far;
> however, I have lots of extra plates should that happen.
> zem
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Kitty" <kmrsy@comcast.net>
> To: <gardenchat@hort.net>
> Sent: Wednesday, July 04, 2007 6:50 AM
> Subject: Re: [CHAT] OT - asthma relapse/she's gone
>
>
> > Every cat I have had has wandered into my life and made it much richer.
> > When one had to leave, though it was unbearable, a consoling thought was
> > that he left to make room for another.  When I lost Mick last year to
> > stomach cancer, I was beside myself.  This time I did not get another
> cat
> > because 5 was just too many and they weren't getting along well.  With
> > time, and now only 4 cats, they seem much more comfortable and amiable.
> > Slugger, the most recent addition had been taking the brunt of the
> > attitude and he now fits in much better.  No other needy cats have shown
> > up.  The time will come though. That "other" time will come too, as it
> > eventually does, and it will be heartbreaking, but it is easier with
> other
> > little ones needing attention.
> >
> > Pam, you'll know when the time is right.  You might consider
> volunteering
> > at a shelter to be near, but not too close, to the darlings.  And then
> one
> > day, a little Spice might come into your life, ready or not.
> >
> > Kitty
> > neIN, Zone 5
> > ----- Original Message -----
> > From: "james singer" <islandjim1@verizon.net>
> >
> >> Just remember the longer you wait, the longer some kitty will be
> without
> >> a loving home.
> >>
> >> On Jul 3, 2007, at 11:39 PM, Pam Evans wrote:
> >>
> >>> Thanks all.  Will get another baby someday.  Not ready yet.  Nowhere
> >>> near.
> >
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Pam Evans
Kemp TX
zone 8A

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