Re: time to vent! Singles vs. Couples...

Sometimes you just need a safe place to complain & vent. We heard you,
commiserated, and are glad to hear the rough seas are calm again! At the
time, that kind of destruction is just devastating, and you need to tell
someone about it.
----- Original Message -----
From: "Donna" <justme@prairieinet.net>
To: <gardenchat@hort.net>
Sent: Wednesday, June 23, 2004 7:28 PM
Subject: RE: [CHAT] time to vent! Singles vs. Couples...


> Boy, have I stirred up a can of worms here :)
>
> Dakota, just for the record... John and I do talk and most times know
> what the other is thinking. He had some serious surgery and was on pain
> killers at the time. Strong ones! Lucky he knew his name at the time. He
> has since been weaning himself off of them, although the doctors don't
> want him to yet. He had no business out of the house, let alone doing
> yard work. Luck he didn't rip it all back open.
>
> In his altered state, he remembered that I was talking about pulling out
> some loosestrife before it flowered. He just forgot which plant was
> which and decided to help me. I just got way too upset over the whole
> incident and flew off the handle. Most of my yard is all native (weeds)
> plants, so he is used to seeing them and know that they belong here.
>
> For those who are married and it is working out... go for it! I had some
> bad experiences prior to knowing John and now choose to keep my
> independence. Had I met John before my ex-husband, things would probably
> be different. We are more married than most married couples, just not
> legally. :)  As a side note, since we both know that either of us can
> just walk out, makes you keep the relationship alive, and not take the
> other person for granted.
>
> Donna
>
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