Ooh! I gotta get me one of those mentors! :>) That would be very helpful.
And to Linda, I think the solution may be to save this seedling until you find that "perfect" plant, then introduce them both! Hate to see you discard such a promising plant.
I do so enjoy all the posts on this list. I'm a perennial lurker, but couldn't help but chime in today. Thanks for all your good information.