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- Subject: Re: It's a girl!
- From: A*@aol.com
- Date: Tue, 21 Dec 2010 13:15:26 EST
I'm sure they will adapt. I've introduced numerous cats into my household with other cats, and it sometimes takes a few days or weeks, but they have never failed to adjust. One old neutered male just adopted an introduced pair of kittens and mothered them, but when the male kitten grew up the old cat became somewhat hostile. The young cat was really devastated. We are coping with a situation similar to yours. A small female cat just showed up at our door some weeks ago. At first she was very nervous and wouldn't let us get near her, but in a short while would come to me when I showed her dry food in my hand. It soon appeared that she really loves to be petted - but still won't let Chet get near her. A neighbor told us that she used to belong to a family down the private road near us. We know that the father in that family had a terrible accident and has been in the hospital for a good while, so maybe they just couldn't cope with the cat and ran her off. She seems so nervous that I can believe she had been abused. I'm sure she is spayed - she's not young, but there are no signs that she ever had kittens. I'm also sure she is housebroken, because we have been shutting her into the garage at night, and when I open the door in the morning she makes a dash for a soft place behind a woodpile. She really lives here now - is around all day and night. I think she wants to come in the house, but I can't let her in with my two until I have her checked by the vet. Talked to the vet yesterday and she gave tips about how to capture her. We'll take her in for overnight observation, and if she's in good health she'll join the family. It just makes me so sad that this nice animal wants so badly to be part of a family, and I have to keep her outside. Also, it's getting so cold at night that I worry about her. At least she is inside the garage at night and that's better than outside with all the predators, etc. I'm sure your cats will adjust. They're all amazing creatures. APL In a message dated 12/21/2010 12:38:24 PM Eastern Standard Time, dp2413@comcast.net writes: We were quite sure this was so, after we finally were able to touch stray cat Blackie a little, but the vet confirmed it yesterday. Brief backstory: She arrived here in May of 2009 and we couldn't get anywhere near her. We had to put food in the shed and then back away at least 25 feet. A slight scratch of foot on gravel sent her scrambling into the woods or under a chicken coop. I was first able to touch her this spring - a year later, and then only briefly until recently. The morning started with a tranquilizer for her, and then a drive to the vets after much howling on her part. I could have used a tranquilizer by then! The howling was ok for me, but I was so afraid she'd hurt herself in panic, or secrete herself behind the washer or something where we couldn't get to her while waiting for her to be calm enough to get into the crate. The best news is that she's FIV, FeLeuk and heartworm negative. She's also been spayed. They had to shave a bit of her belly to get past the thick fur to find the spay scar, but the tattoo is there. That gives us hope that she also has had at least a rabies vaccination. Now let the introductions begin! Question for you cat people. We had her indoors (in a crate, sedated for a while after I brought her home from the vet) and the other cats mostly were curious, not hostile. What do you think the odds are that we can integrate her into the household without hostilities? The other 4 cats are all neutered males. She's been spending the night in the utility room, and the other cats have been aware of her, as she has been of them. We had a terrible time when we adopted E.T. He tore most of the screens on the porch trying to get to two of the other cats, and we finally had to put harnesses on all of them, and keep spray bottles at the ready when we brought him into the house. Of course, the two cats in the family then were male, and he was a street smart Tom (neutered first thing, but still trying to fight through the screens after 4 months) with the scars to show it. The kitten was no problem, once he was big enough not to be chipmunk (prey sized). Any suggestions? d --------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off this list, send email to majordomo@hort.net with the message text UNSUBSCRIBE GARDENCHAT
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