Re: survey

Ah yes, but as long as you KNOW they need work you are doing well. I'd let
her sulk if I could bear it. I know what you mean. Guilt is a wonderful
thing isn't it? I hate it when people try to make me feel guilty. Nothing
makes me angry faster than that. 
A


Andrea H
hodgesaa@earthlink.net
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> [Original Message]
> From: Kitty <kmrsy@comcast.net>
> To: <gardenchat@hort.net>
> Date: 1/1/2005 10:12:08 AM
> Subject: Re: [CHAT] survey
>
> My friend Debbe sulks if she can't get a hug, but I figure she's got
plenty
> of people she can grab.  She's always been a hormonal mess and her brother
> is seriously bipolar so maybe she has a touch of that, so I try to give
her
> a little latitude on it.
> Yes, I too, have gotten more assertive on many fronts as I've gotten
older,
> but some areas still need work.
>
> Kitty
>
> ----- Original Message ----- 
> From: "A A HODGES" <hodgesaa@earthlink.net>
> To: <gardenchat@hort.net>
> Sent: Saturday, January 01, 2005 9:06 AM
> Subject: Re: [CHAT] survey
>
>
> > Kitty, after reading everyone's responses, I think that you still have
the
> > perfect right to not want to hug. I've had this discussion with a close
> > friend before and her answer was that you simply step back and say no, I
> > don't want a hug (in my case it was No, I don't want you to touch me)
but
> > regardless, if it's someone you don't know and they think you are a
B----,
> > who cares? If it's someone you do know and they know about your "hug
> thing"
> > then they are being very inconsiderate when they ignore your dislike of
> > hugs. I would tell her again, you know how I feel, yet you keep doing
it,
> > what kind of friend are you? I'm getting much more assertive as I
> > age........
> >
> > I won't put any xx or oo's  ;-)
> > A
> >
> >
> > Andrea H
> > hodgesaa@earthlink.net
> > EarthLink Revolves Around You.
> >
> >
> > > [Original Message]
> > > From: Kitty <kmrsy@comcast.net>
> > > To: <gardenchat@hort.net>
> > > Date: 12/31/2004 1:02:54 PM
> > > Subject: Re: [CHAT] survey
> > >
> > > More germs are spread by handshakes than by kissing.  Imagine what
this
> > > would mean for business meetings during flu season!  I friend sent me
a
> > > funny .mpg of just that, but I don't have it anymore or would pass it
> on.
> > >
> > > Kitty
> > >
> > > ----- Original Message ----- 
> > > From: "Donna" <gossiper@sbcglobal.net>
> > > To: <gardenchat@hort.net>
> > > Sent: Friday, December 31, 2004 9:07 AM
> > > Subject: RE: [CHAT] survey
> > >
> > >
> > > > Boy this is a tough one for a simple yes/no answer.
> > > >
> > > > Guessing I would be the hugging one but with limitations.... surely
> > > wouldn't
> > > > hug a business client, heck I hate the 'welcome' handshaking part
> (just
> > > > never know where that hand was before <lol>).
> > > >
> > > > Donna
> > > >
> > > >
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