Re: Re: Four O'Clocks, wedding..
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- Subject: Re: [CHAT] Re: Four O'Clocks, wedding..
- From: &* <m*@excite.com>
- Date: Sat, 10 Jul 2004 11:19:16 -0400 (EDT)
Judy: When is your birthday? My 40th is right around the corner. A
hammock, eh?? That sounds perfect to me...what better thing could I ask
for than something to rest my bones in after a hard day in the garden? I
am getting old, ya know! HaHa! BTW, I've never felt better or more
centered in my whole life...I think 40 is going to be great...The one
thing I am most thankful to God for is that year by year, my life just
keeps getting better...
Melody, IA (Z 5/4)
"The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious."
--Albert Einstein
--- On Fri 07/09, Judy L Browning < judybrowning@lewiston.com > wrote:
From: Judy L Browning [mailto: judybrowning@lewiston.com]
To: gardenchat@hort.net
Date: Fri, 9 Jul 2004 10:43:10 -0700
Subject: Re: [CHAT] Re: Four O'Clocks, wedding..
It's so nice to know it's possible to live a quiet happy life. I've
laughed<br>out loud at these stories, recognizing friends and family
that would fit<br>right in the mix. Despite the disagreements and
frustrations that are part<br>of any marriage, I live a pretty
unexciting life. And get down on my knees &<br>thank God I don't
have the "excitement" some folk experience. I
really<br>believe a person can change and be better than before.
Otherwise those<br>experiences are just wasted time. Unfortunately, some
folks just don't get<br>it, or buy into the lie that mistakes are
permanent and change impossible.<br>Oh, sorry, getting off the soapbox
now,<br>Judy<br>z 6 Idaho, warm breezy sunny, almost perfect summer day
here. All I need is<br>a hammock. Hmm birthday coming up, maybe some out
right begging will do the<br>trick? Heh heh<br>----- Original Message
-----<br>From: "Melody" <mhobertm@excite.com><br>To:
<gardenchat@hort.net><br>Sent: Thursday, July 08, 2004 10:04
PM<br>Subject: Re: [CHAT] Re: Four O'Clocks, wedding..<br><br><br>>
Ya know...I grew up thinking all families were as bad as mine...I
didn't<br>> know it was dysfunctional...thought that was normal. Then
I thought I<br>> learned differently when I met my husband's family
and friends. Now<br>> maybe, thanks to all of you...I'm beginning to
think it's my husband's<br>> family that is abnormal and the screwed
up rest of us...are more normal<br>> than we think we are. LOL!!!
:-)<br>><br>><br>><br>> Melody, IA (Z 5/4)<br>><br>>
"The most beautiful thing we can experience is the
mysterious."<br>> --Albert Einstein<br>><br>> --- On Thu
07/08, Jesse Bell < silverhawk@flash.net > wrote:<br>> From:
Jesse Bell [mailto: silverhawk@flash.net]<br>> To:
gardenchat@hort.net<br>> Date: Thu, 8 Jul 2004 12:44:46 -0700
(PDT)<br>> Subject: Re: [CHAT] Re: Four O'Clocks,
wedding..<br>><br>> OHMYGOSH Kitty...that's horrible. Geeeeez
Louise. So....your family<b
r>> and<br>my family sound related?! Are we cousins? Feel free
to jump in<br>> there<br>Andrea...(Andrea and I trade stories
about our family all<br>>
the<br>time...LOL).<br><br>
<br>Jesse<br><br>Kitty
<kmrsy@comcast.net><br>> wrote:<br>Re > > Well, the
dysfunctional part would be:...<br>Jesse, I<br>> was being
facetious when I asked. However, your fleshing out<br>>
the<br>material was pretty interesting, so, if I were to say I
still<br>> didn't get it,<br>maybe you'd tell us more?
;+)<br><br>To balance this I<br>> can add that my older
sister decided to kill herself on my<br>wedding<br>> day
(didn't succeed) apparently because I asked her to make
a<br>turkey.<br>> The turkey was the simplest thing I could
come up with for her as<br>she<br>> kept asking for something
to contribute. Then for my second wedding<br>> I<br>came darned
close to trying to kill myself, so yes, I can<br>>
relate.<br><br>Kitty<br><br>----- Original
Message ----- <br>From:<br>> "Jesse Bell"
<br>To: <br>Sent: Thursday, July 08, 2004 1:33<br>>
PM<br>Subject: Re: [CHAT] Re: Four O'Clocks,
wedding..<br><br><br>> Oh<br>> yes...I did the
shower and helped plan the food and coordinate.<br>>
They<br>> got married on the 2nd of July but did not leave for
the<br>><br>> cruise/honeymoon till Monday so on Sunday we
had the new in-law<br>> family<br>> and our family (parents,
brothers, sister, aunts, etc) at<br>> our house for<br>> a
cookout, drinks and fireworks. The groom's, mother,<br>> father
and<br>> stepmother were there. That was funny to watch<br>>
too.<br>><br>><br>> Well, the dysfunctional
part would be: the second ex<br>> wife who is no<br>>
relation to the bride or groom, and when my<br>> stepda
ug
hter lived with her,<br>> they HATED each other, and yet she
was<br>> escorted down the aisle like she<br>> was FAMILY
for Pete's sake. NOBODY<br>> wanted her there but my
stepdaughter<br>> didn't want to "hurt her<br>>
feelings" so when she invited herself to the<br>>
wedding...Nic said<br>> "well....O.K.". This is the woman
who spread horrible<br>> rumors about<br>> my husband and
his family that were not true....yet odd<br>><br>>
ly<br>> enough...continues to impose at our family<br>>
functions.<br>><br>><br>> AND...the people in
my family and my<br>> husband''s ex who can't seem to<br>>
function in this world unless they<br>> have taken some sort of drug
or have<br>> a glass of alcohol in their<br>> hands...or
worse..they've MIXED them...and<br>> become so obnoxious
you<br>> can't stand to be around them. Remember the
old<br>> toys you got in the<br>> gum machine...the black
and white scottie dogs that<br>> were magnets?<br>> and if
you pushed one towards the other it would scoot<br>> away?
Well,<br>> that would be my sister or my husband's ex...they would
come<br>> into a<br>> room and you could see people start to
scoot out of there....they<br>><br>> would continue with
this scenario until somebody had to say "I<br>>
think<br>> you've had enough...go home and sleep it off".
My sister<br>> left. The<br>> ex...well she made a scene and
was there until the last<br>> person was gone.<br>> She was
out back drinking shots of Yagermeister (I<br>> KNOW I didn't
spell<br>> that right). That stuff is like
Tequila...it'll<br>> will kill ya after a few<br>> shots.
UGHHH.<br>><br>><br>><br>>
Kitty<br>> wrote:<br>> So what was the dysfunctional
part?<br>><br>> Since
this was<br>> your stepdaughter, did you have any part in the
planning of<br>> the<br>> event?<br>><br>>
Kitty<br>><br>> ----- Original Message -----
<br>><br>> From: "Jesse Bell"<br>>
To:<br>> Sent: Thursday, July 08, 2004 12:10<br>>
PM<br>> Subject: Re: [CHAT] Re: Four O'Clocks,
wedding..<br>><br>><br>><br>> > Well,
in my zone the four o'clocks get bigger and bigger
"tubers"<br>> as<br>> > they mature. I have
some that are as big as a sweet<br>> potato....and they<br>>
> get BIG, but are slower to bloom.<br>>
><br>><br>> ><br>> > As for the
wedding....you have to know that (A) I come from a<br>>
very<br>> > dysfunctional family, (B) my husband's two ex's
are<br>> dysfunctional and<br>> > way "out
there", (c) my stepdaughter and her<br>> new husband are from
"that<br>> > generation" as my husband puts
it...so<br>> half of the wedding guests were<br>> >
rather conservative...and "that<br>> generation" made up
the other<br>> > ha<br>><br>> lf<br>> ...(facial
piercing, tattoos all over, dressed rather oddly...and<br>>
><br>> when you walked out back of the reception hall...the smell
of pot<br>> was<br>> > THICK let me tell ya). I had to
make my sister go home<br>> because she had<br>> > too
much to drink (act surprised) and was hitting<br>> on my
brother-in-law<br>> > (who is very married). The mother of
the<br>> bride (husband's first ex) had<br><br>> >
not eaten all day, took a<br>> Valium before the wedding and
proceeded to get<br>> > totally trashed at<br>> the
reception (not a pretty sight) and the second ex,<br>> > who
really<br>> had no business being there but she invite
d
herself, was<br>> > hovering<br>> around trying to mingle
and most of them wanted nothing to do<br>> ><br>> with
her.<br>> ><br>> > BUT...the ceremony itself was
nice. (deep<br>> breath) So...that's one child<br>> down and
five more to go. I hope the<br>> others wait awhile.<br>>
><br>> > Kitty wrote:<br>> > Well, I have
seen<br>> some JB holes on a few of the leaves, but I don't
see<br>> any<br>> ><br>> carcasses. They are
only just now beginning to bloom, so maybe<br>>
their<br>lure<br>> > will be stronger as the season
progresses.<br>><br>> ><br>> > Re> That
was a LOT of work, let me tell ya<br>> > Yes, please<br>>
do!<br>> ><br>> > Kitty<br>>
><br>> > ----- Original Message -----
<br>><br>> > From: "Jesse Bell"<br>>
> To:<br>> > Sent: Thursday, July 08, 2004<br>> 10:30
AM<br>> > Subject: [CHAT] Re: self-sowers/still catching
up..<br>><br>> ><br>> ><br>> >
> Still trying to catch up on e-mails. I didn't read<br>> them for
4-5 days<br>> > > because of my daughter's wedding. That
was a<br>> LOT of work, let me tell<br>> > > ya.
Anyway...yes Kitty...I sent you<br>> some Four O'Clock
seeds..thinking<br>it<br>> > > would help with
the<br>> Japanese Beetle problem you were having. Did
it<br>help<br>> > > at all?<br>> Or is that an
old wive's tale?<br>> > ><br>> >
><br>> > ><br>> > > Kitty<br>>
wrote:<br>> > > You know, I think it was Jesse.
Thanks!<br>> > ><br>> Kitty<br>> > >
----- Original Message ----- <br>> > >
From:<br>> > ><br>> To:<
br>> > > Sent: Sunday, July 04, 2004 1:02 PM<br>>
> > Subject: Re:<br>> Re: [CHAT] self<br>><br>>
-sowers<br>> > ><br>> > ><br>>
> > > Probably Jesse or moi Kitty - we<br>> both have them
all over the place!<br>> Love<br>> > > > 'em
though!<br>> Anyone who needs seeds holler - I have tons of
them.<br>> > > ><br>> > ><br>>
><br>> > > > Pam Evans<br>> > > >
Kemp, TX<br>> > > > zone 8A<br>> > >
><br>> ----- Original Message -----<br>> > > >
From: Kitty<br>> > > > Sent:<br>> 7/4/2004 12:46:29
PM<br>> > > > To: gardenchat@hort.net<br>>
> > ><br>> Subject: Re: [CHAT] self-sowers<br>>
> > ><br>> > > > > Well, maybe it<br>>
was Pam, I know she grows 4 O'Clocks. Whomever -<br>> >
thanks!<br>> > ><br>> ><br>> > >
> ><br>> > > ><br>> > > > >
too bad about the sting, I hate<br>> losing a day. Take care
of<br>yourself.<br>> > > ><br>> >
> > ><br>> > ><br>> ><br>> >
> > > Kitty<br>> > > ><br>> >
> > ><br>> > > ><br>> > > >
><br>> ----- Original Message ----- <br>> > >
><br>> > > > > From:<br>> >
><br>> ><br>> > > > > To:<br>>
> > ><br>> > > > > Sent: Sunday, July 04,
2004<br>> 12:07 PM<br>> > > ><br>> >
> > > Subject: Re: [CHAT] self-sowers<br>>
><br>> > ><br>> > > > ><br>>
> > ><br>> > > &
gt
; ><br>> > > ><br>> > > > >
> In a<br>> message dated 7/4/2004 11:41:05 AM Central Standard
Time,<br>> > ><br>> ><br>> > > >
> > kmrsy@comcast.net writes:<br>> > >
><br>> > > > > ><br>> Balsam, yeah, I need
to grow that next year.<br>> > > ><br>> >
> > ><br>> ><br>> > > ><br>>
> > > > > I did not send you the Mirabilis jalapa<br>>
seeds, but I surely do<br>> have<br>> >
a<br>> > > lot<br>> > > ><br>>
><br>> > > > of<br>> > >
><br>> > > > > > Balsam. If you want seeds
remind me<br>> later in the summer, and I<br>can<br>>
> > send<br>> > > ><br>> > > >
><br>> you<br>> > > ><br>> > >
> > > some. There's a weather alert on TV right<br>> now. We
are expecting<br>> > > strong<br>> > >
><br>> > > > > > straight<br>> line winds
and sever thunder storms this afternoon, but<br>I<br>>
> ><br>> think,<br>> > > ><br>> >
> > > with all<br>> > > ><br>> >
> > > > the<br>> benadryl I took earlier, I'll never
notice.<br>> > > ><br>> > > >
><br>> ><br>> > > ><br>> > >
> > > zem<br>> > > ><br>> > >
> > > zone 7<br>> ><br>> > ><br>>
> > > > > West TN<br>> > >
><br>> > > > > ><br>> > >
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