Re: OT: update

I've met Jesse's ex and believe her - he is a monumental pile of garbage.  I
wouldn't spit on him if he were on fire.
Theresa darlin' - we are here for you.   Any time you want to rant, rave,
vent - all of the above - we are here to listen and support.  Hang in there
and keep busy lady.


On 7/24/07, Jesse Bell <silverhawk@flash.net> wrote:
>
> YES. When I was going through the pre-divorce, divorce and "after-shock"
> of divorce, pulling those weeds by hand was WONDERFUL therapy. I just
> pictured his head being ripped of every time one of those came out of
> the ground. Then I would just laugh. I got it out of my system and was
> productive all at the same time. A total win/win situation! LOL.
>
> My ex was a b*tt. He new I loved my gardens, and he would go outside to
> smoke (I wouldn't let him smoke in the house around the children) and
> then he would throw his cigarette butts in my gardens. Totally rude. So,
> my gardens became "butt free" after that! Life was good.
>
>
>
> james singer <islandjim1@verizon.net> wrote:
> You've got a point, Cyndi. Hand-weeding may be the best therapy there
> is. Especially if it is done on a hot day when you can sweat and curse
> both the weeds and the weather in the same breath.
>
>
> On Jul 24, 2007, at 12:37 PM, Johnson Cyndi D Civ 95 CG/SCSRT wrote:
>
> > Hang in there...hand weeding is always therapeutic too...you know that
> > nice ripping sound they make when they come out of the ground?
> >
> > Cyndi
> >
> >
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: owner-gardenchat@hort.net [o*@hort.net] On
> > Behalf Of Theresa W
> > Sent: Monday, July 23, 2007 8:03 PM
> > To: gardenchat@hort.net
> > Subject: Re: [CHAT] OT: update
> >
> > Thanks for the support Donna- yep, definitely riding the wave
> > emotions.... Still know I'm doing the right this. We should be
> > getting
> > the house appraised on Saturday- this will move things forward
> > relatively quickly- provided the number is one the we both can agree
> > on.
> >
> > I'm not too worried about replacing stuff- we had too much junk in
> > the house anyway. I did clean up the floor in my office, stored stuff
> > in the closet of his old office, and over the weekend got my dad's old
> > table out of my garage and set it up in the kitchen area. I also moved
> > an old chair of mine out of his old office into the living room. So,
> > aside from his old office looking weird with no furniture- everything
> > is
> > fairly well pieced together. I want to repaint that room anyway- so
> > once
> > I pick out a paint color and get it on the walls, then I'll worry about
> > what else to move in there to make it my own.
> >
> > Theresa
> >
> > Donna wrote:
> >> Holding up ok Theresa? Having been there, I still remember all the
> >> mood swings -- glad he is out of my life to what the heck did I do....
> >>
> >>
> >> Dont worry about replacing all the things he took right away. Some of
> >> my fondest memories are of the times things were not perfect but
> >> improvised with friends.
> >>
> >>
> >> Although most of my family is gone now, I still remember the times
> >> they surprised me- like when I moved into my house years ago.... they
> >> all came along with friends - on the DAY I moved in... Panic set in
> >> thinking geesh, only got a 6 pack of pop and case of beer in the
> >> fridge.... but they brought it all- food, plates, drinks, folding
> >> chairs and we partied all night..... and as my uncle said- you never
> >> clean before a party cause someone is gonna spill something, so do it
> > afterwards.
> >>
> >>
> >> Donna
> >>
> >> ----- Original Message ----
> >> From: Theresa W
> >> To: gardenchat@hort.net
> >> Sent: Monday, July 23, 2007 10:47:11 AM
> >> Subject: Re: [CHAT] OT: update
> >>
> >>
> >> You are too funny! I'm heading over the Cost Plus World Market in
> >> another hour or so to buy some chairs. I have a table that will do
> >> for now, but eventually I'll need one of those too.
> >>
> >> Theresa
> >>
> >> Jesse Bell wrote:
> >>> I made snow angels in the carpet when my ex finally moved out. I
> >>> kissed all the walls, danced in my empty house (because he took all
> >>> but the children's furniture), and ate dinner on the floor, picnic
> >>> style. It was a huge relief for me.
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>
> >>> james singer wrote:
> >>> Ahhh... the awkward moments of separation. Not my favorite time.
> >>> They seem oddly embarrassing for some reason, and only about halfway
> >>> final at any given interval. Both of mine were filled with spates of
> >>> doubt and second-guessing. Hang in there. The need to rearrange the
> >>> furniture abates after awhile and the instant hollowness of not
> >>> having familiar ears to listen to you bitch gets filled with the
> >>> sound you've been trying to make for sometime.
> >>>
> >>> On Jul 21, 2007, at 5:44 PM, Theresa W wrote:
> >>>
> >>>> Hi all-
> >>>> I have cherry tomatoes galore right now, and eventually I'll get
> >>>> outside and pick some. My ex moved out of the house today and has
> >>>> most everything. He'll need to come back tomorrow for odds and ends,
> >
> >>>> and eventually we'll need to sort through the garage, but that can
> >>>> wait until later. So far, everything has been OK. I'm really happy
> >>>> today is over, the last couple days have just been really awkward.
> >>>> So- I've been on a major cleaning binge for much of the afternoon-
> >>>> but now I'm tired and just need to take a shower myself. Tomorrow I
> >>>> can clean more and maybe start organizing some stuff. (my office is
> >>>> one giant pile of stuff that needed to be moved to get to other
> >>>> stuff!)
> >>>>
> >>>> Theresa
> >>>>
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