its awfully quiet....and the struggle of next week
Is everyone outside??
Well- I know I haven't been online much either, but here is the update
Garden-related: I planted the new astilbe that friends gave me for my
birthday this afternoon, and I gave away a bunch of plants that I had
too much of or not enough room anymore to a friend this evening.
Tomorrow, I'm working half day, then packing to go back to Texas, and
getting a massage at 2pm in an effort not to implode.
Saturday I fly to Texas. Next Tuesday in Texas, my younger sister and I
will be taking my mom to an Alzheimer's care center to admit her. I'm
very stressed about this, and sad, and relieved, and pretty much every
other possible emotion that exists. It is going to be horrible, she is
going to be furious, and I'm sure lots of crying will occur. But, it is
the right thing to do, she is getting worse by the day. The center is
really nice, has an enclosed garden area (so she can go in and out
whenever she wants) and they have suggested that we bring her bird
feeders to put outside her window. They also will let her plant things
in the garden area, and her winder looks out on the garden. Still, I
can't wait until Tuesday is over. We can't tell her what we are doing,
and that feels very icky- but everyone has advised us to just get her in
the car and bring her without her knowing where she is really going.
Otherwise she'll be so upset before she gets there, it is even worse (we
definitely don't need "worse"). I'm going to stay in Texas for another
week after that, visit my mom (we'll see if she will ever talk to me)
and help support my sister.
Then, I'm flying to Boston to visit my older sister and nephew (he's
graduating from preschool!). That will be my chance to recuperate, and
Carl is a great distraction. I'm sure I'll make lots of Lego things
with him : )
So- I'll return to my own life in mid-June, but will try to check in
occassionally in the meantime. Thanks to all who have been checking up
on me to see how things are going. I really appreciate this groups
support, and particularly any positive thoughts you can send my way next
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