Re: tolerance of lack of same/ alone

Your life is not for the faint of heart woman, I'm here to tell ya!!
Your schedule would kill me dead in under a week. Guaranteed.


:-O

---------- Original Message ----------------------------------
From: "Jesse Bell" <jesserenebell@hotmail.com>
Reply-To: gardenchat@hort.net
Date:  Tue, 25 Nov 2003 11:23:38 -0600

>Hey, I can relate.  Truly.  A housefull of teenagers is not for the faint of 
>heart let me tell ya.
>
>Jesse Rene' Bell
>Claremore, OK
>Zone 6
>
>
>
>
>>From: kmrsy@comcast.net
>>Reply-To: gardenchat@hort.net
>>To: gardenchat@hort.net
>>Subject: Re: [CHAT]tolerance of lack of same/ alone
>>Date: Tue, 25 Nov 2003 16:24:28 +0000
>>
>>Jesse,
>>reminds me of a story my mother told of how, when I was an infant, Pat
>>was ~20mos, and Sue was 5-6 yrs. Once every few wks she got a night out
>>all by her lonesome and went to a movie. That night it was pouring rain,
>>she couldn't get a cab, her umbrella broke in the wind, the heel came
>>off her shoe, she fell down a hill, and missed half the movie. She said
>>it was worth it to get that time alone.
>>
>>Kitty
>> > OH man...I hear ya Gene.  Love my husband, love my kids...but I would 
>>really
>> > like to be able to take a bath or go to the bathroom without somebody
>> > calling my name or walking in on me.  It gets old.  And no matter how 
>>much I
>> > gripe...it seems to fall on deaf ears!!  I'm 41...hitting that time in 
>>my
>> > life when some alone time is needed and very much required.  My family
>> > doesn't seem to understand that.  It's "honey, honey, honey and mom, 
>>mom,
>> > mom".  Ughhh.  The youngest three children are all 15 years old...they 
>>can
>> > fend for themselves for awhile.  And I have to ask my husband every now 
>>and
>> > then "What did you do before you married me and you were a single
>> > father...try to remember...and do that again for me, huh?"  I remember 
>>my
>> > mother going throught this very same thing...and thinking "geez, what a
>> > grouch!".  There were five kids in that household...and my father did
>> > NOTHING to help around there.
>> >
>> >
>> > Jesse Rene' Bell
>> > Claremore, OK
>> > Zone 6
>> >
>> >
>> >
>> > >From: "Gene Bush" <genebush@otherside.com>
>> > >Reply-To: gardenchat@hort.net
>> > >To: <gardenchat@hort.net>
>> > >Subject: Re: [CHAT]tolerance of lack of same/ alone
>> > >Date: Tue, 25 Nov 2003 07:08:18 -0500
>> > >
>> > >Hello Kitty,
>> > >     I found that the longer one lives alone the more difficult it is 
>>to
>> > >form
>> > >a relationship where the two of you move in together, marry or what 
>>ever
>> > >you
>> > >choose where you live together *all the time*. Whew!! The changes, the
>> > >adapting to taking another into consideration if you simply wanted to 
>>go to
>> > >the bathroom by yourself. Been married for a bit now and still have 
>>trouble
>> > >once in a while with two people in this house at the same time. Does 
>>not
>> > >mean I care any less for who I am married to.... but... somehow it is 
>>all
>> > >worth it at the end of the day.
>> > >     Gene E. Bush
>> > >Munchkin Nursery & Gardens, llc
>> > >www.munchkinnursery.com
>> > >genebush@munchkinnursery.com
>> > >Zone 6/5  Southern Indiana
>> > >
>> > >----- Original Message ----- > Pam,
>> > >snip...
>> > > > Living alone is not unusual.  Lots of people do.  As long as it 
>>works
>> > >for
>> > > > you and you have the network of friends you want and need (including
>> > >Sugar),
>> > > > there is no need to feel odd-man-out.  I've been alone since '89 and
>> > >frankly
>> > > > these 14 years have been much better for me than the previous 14.  I
>> > >don't
>> > > > understand why anyone would give you a hard time for being single 
>>and
>> > > > orientation is nobody's business.
>> > > >
>> > > > Kitty
>> > >
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