OT CHAT: Flaming


From: "Paul Tyerman" <tyerman@hotmail.com>


The original starter of this thread (Kathy Poore?) implied in her message 
that she had had repeated flames from a single person..... is this correct?  
If so, the person should just plain be barred from this list.  It is quite 
possible for John to do so as far as I know.  No-one should be allowed to 
get away with abusing others.

Unfortunately (or fortunately) I too have been somewhat misconcieved in my 
view of this list as I thought that generally it was a bunch of pretty nice 
people.  Shame I (and Jan) was wrong.

I really think that ALL flaming should be sent to the moderator, so that if 
a pattern emerges of a particular person writing without thinking (which I 
have done at times...... but I don't make a regular habit of it) then they 
can either be contacted and asked not to, or they can be removed from the 
list so that they can't be abusive.

It all comes down to standing up for yourselves.  If it is just accepted and 
never reported then it will just continue to happen and more and more people 
will be upset and either stop contributing or leave the list.  NOONE has the 
right to do that to others.  Flamers should be cautioned and then removed if 
they do not reform.  Plain and simple.

Now..... I don't think this can be miscontrued as a flame?  But hopefully it 
might make a few people report others for abuse.... particularly if they 
still have all the flames that have been sent to them.


Cheers...

Paul Tyerman
Canberra, Australia
USDA Zone 8
t*@hotmail.com

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