Re: Weeding, in theory


Janet..Is your Mom jealous of your garden/life?  Is she feeling insecure 
about being there ? I am not making excuses for her....just that if I try to 
see the other persons point of view..the less chance there is of me killing 
them and spending the rest of my life in jail..:O)   I certainly emphasize 
with you......

Kay
Zone 7
Chattanooga, TN

<< s weeding; No, I haven't got
 time to deadhead; I know the soil's too clayey --  the soil was that way
 when we bought the house. This from the woman whose garden has died from
 neglect.
     So I let her prune the overgrown climbing rose and deadhead the
 bigroot geranium, and asked her to please help my daughter plant the
 annuals. Harmless, right? Well, I just found out that she pulled out
 most of my Disporum sessile 'Variegatum'. "Those aren't weeds!" I
 exclaimed.
     "I know that, but they are choking your tree peony." If she had been
 here a week earlier, she would have seen the tree peony blooming its
 head off. She meant well, but to do this without even thinking of
 asking...I'm floored....in a few hours I'll be annoyed.... Yes, I'm
 especially sensitive because she always feels my decisions are mistakes.
 
     Anybody else ever had their garden invaded by somebody who "knows
 better"?
 
 J

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