RE: time to vent!.Libby-
I really enjoyed your post...kept nodding my head, yep, yep....:)
After the shock of what happen and I finally calmed down (took a while),
made the realization that he did not intentionally due this to hurt me
and does feel bad about it. You are right, you have to move forward. At
the time, told him I was not going to due any more gardening and he
would have to add that to his plate since he wanted to destroy it
anyways. Found that is not going to work, why give up something that you
like to do.
This am, he asked if I wanted him to do anything in the yard today... he
got the look!.... everything appears to be intact this evening. Don't
think he stepped out the door. LOL!
Think I am going to work on the soil in that area (since it is bare
anyways!) and take all winter to figure out what to plant.
Just think I have 5 more weeks of him being home with nothing but time
on his hands.... e-gads!
> Our agreement is along the lines of: I grow it, he cuts it. I
> do the gardens, I do the birdfeeders, etc. The cutting is supposed to
> restricted to the lawn, plus edging. He's wandered into my gardens
> then, usually cleaning out my seedlings, and I have yelled and cried,
> usually just says it looked like weeds.
> Last summer he got "inspired" (Donna, I so relate to your situation
> have all my sympathy) and weedwhacked the dahlia bed because there was
> grass in it and it looked messy to him. While he's very bright and a
> mathematical whiz, he doesn't know the difference between, well, pick
> two, plants, and doesn't care to know. However, after I finally and
> completely lost my temper (which never happens) last year after this
> he has been much better about watching those edges and staying on the
> The thing is, once it's done, it's done. I think you are right to
> forward and figure out what else you can do with the space. I'm
> don't have any sunny moist spots - I have all dry, so I don't have any
> suggestions for favorite plants.
> I've had comments from the neighborhood kids about how at their house
> dad does the yard work, and I just smile and say at my house we split
> yard work, and there's no reason I can't do it. Of course, the only
> you'll see any of the other women out, summer or winter, is if their
> husband's are out of town. They do think I set a bad example, I think
> a good one!
> I'm sure since I'm late reading this thread, there will have been
> suggestions for plantings. Good luck with it and try to enjoy the
> replanting if you can!
> Maryland zone 6
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