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Re: new things at home

>-- [ From: nonayobusiness * EMC.Ver #2.3 ] --
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>Dear Cindy,  What you say may be true, but you also have to understand that
>living w/someone else may mean that you do not have the same interests.
>When that happens, you  can't overwhelm the other person by filling the
>house up with flora and fauna, because his happiness  is important to me
>too. It's a 2 way street and you can't go around saying, "If you really
>loved me then you'd let me do ---."  My husband has  said nothing while a
>large dog, 2  turtles and 14 birds  and  lots of fish came in  here, plus
>more plants than I can count.  It was only the last thing, a koi, that
>sparked comment from him.   If I complain, I guess it's recreational
>complaining.  I thought that was apparent.  :)  Lauren  B. Z6 NY

Dear Lauren,

....well, I didn't mean to criticize...and, of course, didn't know your
house was so full of critters and flora... Certainly, each person in a
relationship must have regard for the other. It sounds like you've got a
winner in your husband.  And, enough of social commentary.  Happy Plants
Cindy M. Tx. Z8/9
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